4.08.2014

I Would Never Have dated You When I Was 25


That's what she blurted out to me yesterday right before I told her that I would never marry her. She proceeded to explain how back then she was attracted to the huge roided out bodybuilder types and how she finds them disgusting now. The truth is so depressing sometimes. I maintained my frame pretty well when she said this; mainly because I only just remembered that she said it about an hour ago. And when I did remember, a blanket of hopelessness and certain despair was thrown over me. 

The truth is, I wanted to weep. I wanted to weep not just because I'm getting the leftovers. But also because her female mind will make sure she never understands. And also because I'm going to have to leave this girl soon if she expects me to invest more into her than I deem her worthy. And I wanted to weep because I honestly feel like she might be lost without me due to her mental illnesses and lack of self control. And I wanted to weep because I know she will fuck men left and right after we break up. I wanted to weep because I fell in love with her no matter how many times I told myself not to. What kind of fucked up game is this?

23 comments:

Anonymous said...

Bitches man. Bitches.

Jason Weinberg said...

dude don't be a beta. break up with her and go on a fuck spree of one night stands. then pull another pretty girl and go on your way. pro tip: go to church and meet a girl, you will not regret it.

Anonymous said...

If you love her why would you give a shit what her history is? Logically you should be looking at the mental illnesses, etc. to see if she will be a good mother and companion.

Anonymous said...

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/22i0t2/i_would_never_have_dated_you_when_i_was_25/

Anonymous said...

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/22i0t2/i_would_never_have_dated_you_when_i_was_25/

Anonymous said...

NEXT!

Anonymous said...

gah.. I feel you man. I mean, I don't think anyone has titled it anything, but I mean we could immediately call it "leader's remorse." Not to say your girl's short-sightedness is anything akin to Republican intransigence, but how do you think Obama feels when large swathes of the citizenry absolutely refuse healthcare out of some weird historical ideology, even though he ABSOLUTELY KNOWS they'd be better off with it? Look man, being a leader of wo//men is tough and sometimes you can't get 'em all. But being a leader also means knowing when to let the lost go...

Remember! the wolf never cries when he's eating the sheep...

Unknown said...

It's not about being a beta or whatever. Be happy, and being happy starts with you staying away of crazed bitches. You do NOT need her, she needs you, and she will make you feel like shit.

Let her fuck somebody elses life.

PhantomZodak said...

you can weep & you should weep. AFTER you've dumped her. she just insulted you by saying that you aren't one of the alpha males she would have banged in her 20s. she thinks you are a beta provider. alpha fux & beta bux. you are not a white knight. you are not going to save her. it is not your job to save her. that's not why you exist. dump her, weep for the state of relationships & then bang some other girl knowing what they are really like. the red pill is bitter but you need to live it.

Zamato Ravenous Elite said...

Yea, you're acting mega beta right now, which is exactly what she wants. If I were you, I wouldn't dump her but I'd definitely start taking on side lovers. Eventually she will find out and you'll both get in a nasty fight and she's back on the streets where she belongs. Her "mental issues" and "lack of self control" aren't your problem. She is a parasite.

therationalmale.com said...

Start reading:
http://therationalmale.com/2014/03/16/preventative-medicine-part-i/
http://therationalmale.com/2014/03/26/preventative-medicine-part-ii/
http://therationalmale.com/2014/04/08/preventative-medicine-part-iii/

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Anonymous said...

ah dude please leave this woman, if you dont that feeling your her contingency plan C/D maybe even E will always be with you.....

Anonymous said...

The only thing better than pussy is new pussy. So now you have something to look forward to.

Welcome back to the world of opportunity.

Anonymous said...

In a way the hardest part is: "I know she will fuck men left and right after we break up."

And she will. But she'll never fuck the ones she really wants. Too old for that. And within a couple months, she'll be torturing some other man's soul. You'll probably feel sorry for him, actually, in time. And she'll be more miserable than ever. Just wait out the couple of months when you know she's party to pump-and-dumps, as mentally tormenting as that may be. Time is on your side. When you are at your angriest, resolve to win the war. That anger, too, will fade.

Read Rollo's stuff. It'll all make sense and help you get your feet on the ground.

-Steve H.

Anonymous said...

Let's be honest here...you already had sex with her, what else do you need her for? Her body has no surprises left and since you realize she's leftovers from roided up muscle guys, do what you do with leftovers...dump her and let some other guy pick up your trash and see it as a treasure.

My advice:listen to the wise poet Jay-Z...99 Problems and On to the NEXT one.

Anonymous said...

"I wanted to weep because I fell in love with her no matter how many times I told myself not to. What kind of fucked up game is this?"

Look, I understand that you're human. You want to love and be loved and all of that. You're probably a decent guy. Trouble is, you're living in an era when every negative aspect of the female gender is rewarded and empowered by the culture you're living in. The overall quality of women is at an all-time low, and if you do some research, you'll find that it was never very high to begin with.

Step 1: Dump this bitch. Cry after she's gone if you need to, but do not let her see you cry. Kick this bitch to the curb. No arguments. No fighting. Tell her to pack her shit and go. Literally if you're living together, or figuratively if you're not.

Step 2: Do some research and learn what women really are.

Step 3: Decide HOW or IF you want to engage them.

Step 4A: Become what these young cum dumpsters want. Pump and dump them ruthlessly. Never commit. Never marry. Never love them. Fuck them a few times and next them.

- OR -

Step 4B: Buy a Fleshlight, get a good dog, and go fishing.

Anthony K. said...

Wow I never expected this many comments on this post, thank you all so much for your advice, your constructive criticism and most of all for your genuine concern as well as empathy. I know very well that this experience is not unique to only me and it gives me hope that at least a small branch of the male gender can stick together in this way. This girls' sexual history however, is unique, which I would love to write about. But it's too long, intricate and disgusting for me to write about right now because her sexual past is fucking ridiculous! I love all the sites, but especially TheRationalMale.com (Rollo, you're fucking awesome and you're helping an untold number of men young and old) and reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

Jaxol J said...

Dude, she is probably fucking guys left and right behind your back. She's saying you don't give her the gina tingles, but she's settling for you at the moment. I would be willing to bet that she is at least looking if she's not actively shopping. Once she gets someone she thinks is better than you, you're history. Jump now before you invest anything more into her. It sucks, but it will suck a lot worse the further this goes on, especially if you catch her banging some other dude.

Anonymous said...

C’mon guys, Her past is Her past, let’s not judge her on the societal pressures and patriarchy that forced and pressurised her into becoming abused by the hordes of men she felt she had to sleep with…

I think you should man up and give it a go; I have outlined exactly what you get in return below…

You get to be the one that can provide for her, you get to be the one that does not judge her when she gains 40lbs or doesn’t come home after a night out for 3 days; or is arrested for sleeping in the gutter with a hobo.

You get free access to a used up, worn out flap-trap which only tingles for bad boys, thugs and the dregs of society. (All of whom she will continue to bang during your relationshit anyway)

Then when she gets impregnated with thug spawn, you will get to believe that the womb turd is yours and spend the next 18 years of your life paying to raise the little savage. Albeit from another location as by then she will have divorced you, taking your house, your car and a constant flow from whatever resources you have left and/ or acquire during this time

It could be a beautiful life. What else would you want to do; Go fishing?

Anonymous said...

My advice to you:

Dump the bitch at a high rate speed. If she's not currently fucking guys behind your back, she will be soon.

As for not dating you when she was 25? Well she told you straight up (in her own words) that you're nothing but a walking ATM and a bronze medal. She's fucked and sucked all the loser/criminal cock she could in her prime and now it's time to settle.

Tell her you don't want someone who's been nothing but a cum receptacle and you deserve better. Let her cougar it up until she decides to become a cat lady.

Water seeks its own level. If left to her own devices, no matter what she says, her inner cunt will seek out losers/criminal to fuck one way or another.

You don't need this. Dump her. Tell her that she is the whore/gold digger that she is. Spend some money on yourself. Enjoy your freedom. If you must have a woman in your life, be patient for that 1/10. Mind you, that is some fucking patience. If you need to scratch the itch, use them as they use us. She's no different than any other 'woman' out there. Only in it for herself. Cruel, etc.

You don't need this. Run. Fucking run.

Black Poison Soul said...

Sometimes it can seem unbearably sad.

But then I remember: I'm not being paid to save this dumb cunt from her bad decisions.

We are having some fun with a dumb whore (one too stupid to realise what she really is). We are not Captain Save A Whore.

Anonymous said...

I'm not sure a woman would dare say that to me but if she did, it would be the last she ever saw of me period. Never ever be afraid to walk away!

maxim said...

Damn I felt the exact same way when i broke up with my evil bitch girlfriend. I knew she was going to fuck ever guy as soon as we broke up, and she did, she cheated on me before that too. and she expected me to invest so much in her when she hadn't earned it at all. a terrible girlfriend. You really need to date a girl for a few months and really get to know her before you give her the opportunity to be your girlfriend.

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